Parenting Arrangements and Child Custody Lawyers, Central Coast

Our Child Custody lawyers resolving Parenting Arrangements for Central Coast Families

CopperTree Family Law is a family law practice in Erina, acting for separated parents across the Central Coast — Gosford, Terrigal, Kincumber, Woy Woy, Wyong, The Entrance and the surrounding suburbs.

Most people still say “child custody”, but that term no longer appears in Australian family law. Decisions about who a child lives with, how much time they spend with each parent, and who makes the major long-term decisions are all made according to one test: the best interests of the child.We take the time to listen to your story, understand what matters most to you, and explain how the law is likely to view your situation. Whether you are hoping to reach a calm agreement or you are already in dispute, the first step is understanding your options. Speak to one of our Central Coast family lawyer

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Parenting Plans and Consent Orders

You may decide upon a parenting plan, which is not legally binding but reflects a mutual agreement about child or children’s care and living arrangements between yourself and your former partner. In addition, whether or not you should formalise a parenting plan requires consideration. Contact us so we can walk you through it.

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Taking Action in Parenting Arrangements

If you are unable to reach an agreement, our family lawyers will help you decide upon the best strategy. We can make an application for formal court orders, and assist with other parenting issues. For instance, placing children on an airport watch list, DNA testing, or child recovery. If you are contemplating re-marriage or relocation, we can also advise on the impact this might have on any agreement.Department of Human Services oversees the administration of child support. The Courts have limited involvement in this area and situations are oftentimes complex. Contact us for guidance.

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Important Decision

There are many complex considerations when making arrangements for the children. At CopperTree Family Law, we understand that emotions about children run high. Come and talk it through with a family lawyer who understands how important this decision is for you. We are conveniently located in Erina on the Central Coast. Please contact us today for an appointment. See our full list of service areas.

Parenting arrangements on the Central Coast

The right choice depends on how much trust remains between you, whether there are safety concerns, and how much certainty you need. Most of our clients start at option two or three. Parenting after separation almost always starts with a conversation rather than a courtroom. In practice, separated parents settle their arrangements in one of four ways:

1.

An informal agreement

Nothing written down. Flexible, but nothing to fall back on if the other parent changes their mind.

2.

A parenting plan

A written, signed and dated agreement between you and the other parent. Not enforceable by a court, but a genuine record of what you both agreed.

3.

Parenting consent orders 

Your agreement filed with and approved by the court, which makes it legally enforceable without either of you having to attend a hearing.

4.

Court-ordered parenting orders

Where agreement isn’t possible, a judge decides.

Parenting PlanConsent Orders
Enforceable by a court?NoYes
Needs court approval?NoYes, filed as an Application for Consent Orders
Easy to change?Yes, if both parents agree in writingUsually requires new consent orders or a court application
Do you have to attend court?NoUsually no, decided on the papers
Best suited toParents who communicate well and value flexibilityParents seeking certainty or where trust is limited

A parenting plan is not worthless simply because it cannot be enforced. If a dispute later comes before the court, the court may consider the most recent parenting plan when making decisions. It also demonstrates that both parents were willing to negotiate and work together.

Consent orders are often the preferred option for separated parents who want their agreement to be legally binding. We regularly assist Central Coast families with preparing and filing consent orders and can advise whether this additional step is appropriate for your circumstances.

Parental responsibility and parental rights

Parental responsibility means all the duties, powers and authority that parents have in relation to their children. It is not about time spent. It is about who makes the major long-term decisions: schooling, serious medical treatment, religion, name, and where the child lives if that significantly affects their relationship with the other parent.

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Australian family law is built around the rights of the child rather than the rights of the parent. There is no legal right to a set amount of time with your child, and no automatic entitlement to make decisions on your own. Each parent has parental responsibility for their child, and separation does not by itself change that — but how it is exercised after separation is decided by reference to the child’s best interests.

No. This changed on 6 May 2024. The presumption of equal shared parental responsibility was removed from the Family Law Act, and new provisions now deal with how separated parents make decisions about major long-term issues. There has never been a requirement for children to spend equal time with each parent, despite how often that idea gets repeated.

You apply to the Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia for a parenting order giving you sole decision-making responsibility for major long-term issues. In practice you will usually need to:

  • attempt family dispute resolution first, or establish that an exception applies;
  • file an Initiating Application, an affidavit, and a Notice of Child Abuse, Family Violence or Risk where relevant;
  • set out the specific evidence — not just the feeling — that shared decision-making is not workable or not safe.

Sole parental responsibility is not granted because one parent finds the other difficult. Courts order it where the evidence shows joint decision-making would not serve the child, commonly in matters involving family violence, entrenched conflict, substance misuse, or a parent who has disengaged. If that’s your situation, bring us the detail and we’ll give you a straight assessment of your prospects.

Before filing a parenting application, you generally need a section 60I certificate from an accredited family dispute resolution practitioner confirming you made a genuine effort to resolve matters. This surprises many parents, and it’s the step where a well-prepared parenting plan often comes together.

Limited exceptions apply, including matters involving family violence or child abuse risk, genuine urgency, where a party is unable to participate, and certain contravention applications. We’ll tell you at the first meeting which category you fall into.

Family dispute resolution near you. Central Coast parents can access accredited FDR through Interrelate at Gosford, Relationships Australia, and services listed by the Family Law Pathways Network Central Coast. We can refer you and prepare you for the session so you go in knowing what you’re aiming for.

Mediation is not a soft option. It is usually faster, considerably cheaper, and far less damaging to the co-parenting relationship your children will rely on for years. It also works better when you understand the legal framework beforehand, which is where we come in.

If negotiation and mediation don’t resolve matters, our family lawyers will help you decide on a strategy rather than simply filing and hoping. We act for parents in applications for parenting orders and in urgent situations, including:

  • recovery orders where a child has been withheld or taken;
  • placing a child on the Airport Watch List where there is a risk of removal from Australia;
  • parentage testing;
  • contravention applications where existing orders are being breached;
  • responding to allegations, including where a Notice of Risk has been filed against you.

Not simply because circumstances feel different. A court will generally only reconsider final parenting orders where there has been a significant change of circumstances and reconsideration is in the child’s best interests. Alternatively, you and the other parent can agree to new consent orders. We can advise whether what has changed in your situation is likely to clear that threshold.

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Talk it through with a family lawyer who understands what’s at stake

There are many complex considerations when making arrangements for children, and emotions about children run high. Parents who are divorcing, or who were never married, face the same test and the same process. What differs is the detail of your family, and that detail is what we work with. At CopperTree Family Law we protect and advocate for your interests at all times, while being clear with you about the legal framework your needs will be considered under. We would rather tell you something unwelcome early than let you spend money pursuing an outcome the law won’t give you.

What people say about us

Anonymous

2 years ago

I would highly recommend Cheryl for your family law needs. She is professional, efficient, committed and friendly to work with. Cheryl will endeavour to achieve the best outcome for you.

M.B Case
6-7 years ago
You'll know Cheryl is there from her genuine care for you. She is there to support you 100%, when you are going through the darkest time. She is not only a capable solicitor, but has a deep understanding in keeping emotional strength, as sometimes the toughest thing is to deal with "fear" itself. Cheryl has a down to earth approach, she will ground you and you will feel assured. She works with morals, and you feel confident when you hear other solicitors make compliments on her work.
Anonymous
Cheryl is one of the most prepared solicitors I have worked with, her approach is thorough and she genuinely cares about each case she takes on. She always provides balanced advice that takes on board both sides of the situation to make sure every decision is the best one you can make. When my family was faced with the chaos of separation, and I had to try and understand the legal processes involved with property, parenting arrangements, and every other detail, Cheryl was there to break down each step and give me confidence in knowing that I was being taken care of. She took the time to listen to my feelings and concerns, was patient and yet highly professional at all times. Cheryl has taken the stress out of the legal process for me so that I can focus on rebuilding my life and my future with my children.
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I am grateful at how seamless the divorce process was with Cheryl guiding me through it. She's warm and understanding yet draws a very clear line when explaining obligations and potential outcomes to ensure that I knew exactly what was coming ahead. I'm particularly grateful for my initial consultation because I came out of the meeting knowing exactly what my obligations were and what steps I needed to take to navigate the divorce process at the same time my mother was dying. I have since been back to have other family documents drawn up and today, when I dropped in to collect some paperwork, she remembered me from 2 years prior and asked me how I was doing and was pleased to see me looking so well. She remembered very specific details about our interaction and what I had been through. Cheryl actually cares about her clients.
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Cheryl and her team are highly organised, informative and professional. They deliver on their word and always ensure that you are clear on next steps. Copper Tree helped me achieve the best outcome for my children and I would highly recommend their services to anyone needing help!!
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Very good I recommend to my friends and family all the time.
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Very happy with the advice Cheryl gave and provided peace of mind.
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Sarah Gibbons
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Cheryl is dedicated and will go above and beyond. She has expertise that makes you feel confident. She is organised and thorough. I would recommend copper tree family law to anyone who feels that they need someone to advocate for them. I was always heard and Cheryl always did everything within her power to ensure a good outcome. She never gave up and was always available when I needed to ask questions. Cheryl and her team were professional and so invested and all genuinely cared about the situation and did more than expected. She was always comforting and reassuring but always said what the outcome could be and was always realistic. The team were helpful and explained everything that was going on, helping me through it step by step. I do not think that we would have gotten the outcome that we did without Copper Tree family law. Having Cheryl advocate for me made all the difference and I am thankful that I found her firm as the outcome has been life changing and I believe without her assistance I would be in a very different position today. I am very grateful for all that her and her team have done and would highly recommend her.
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To say that I am forever grateful for what Cheryl and the team at Coppertree have done for my son and I would be an absolute understatement. I had started my case with other firms and unfortunately I didn’t receive the service I was after. I was then prompted to head over and see Cheryl about my case to see what she could do for me. From our initial chat together I knew things were about to change, everything turned and started to head into the direction I needed it to. Cheryl was always very open and honest with me and always so willing listen to what I had to say, which was a fair bit at times haha. Cheryl was always honest about what I could possibly achieve and she went above and beyond each and every time to facilitate this for me. I went from a period of time where I had no time at all with my son due to some pretty interesting situations, through to a point where my final orders have been stamped with something I honestly only ever dreamt of. Cheryl made this possible through her professionalism, dedication and her sheer will to do everything she could for my son and I. Throughout the entire process Cheryl was always available for a chat and she was always incredibly supportive which is something I am forever grateful for. To know Cheryl was there so I could even to let go of whatever was on my mind was just very comforting and it definitely got me through the process much easier. Natasha was also a pivotal part of the process and always so willing to help in every way possible. I was Always met with a smile or a cheerful phone call and she absolutely has huge sense of professionalism that keeps it’s all ticking along in the background that’s for sure. As a father in the system, I would absolutely recommend Cheryl and Natasha at Coppertree to facilitate anything you require. Be honest with yourself and your children and they will work their fingers to the bone to achieve the best possible outcome for you. Cheryl and Natasha, I can’t thank you both enough for everything. Myself and Noah will be in debt to you both for the life you have given us as we move forward with it all. You have given us plenty of smiles together already and no doubt they will only grow as we move along with life. Thank you. Shane and Noah
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I would like to say a HUGE thank-you to all the hard work and everything you put into this for us. It is such a massive weight off my shoulders and you did an amazing job throughout the whole thing. You have changed our life for the better and I cannot thank-you enough! Its a credit to your hard work and dedication (all hours of the day/night). I can actually focus on rebuilding my life and future life with my child and I will never forget what you have done for us. I highly recommend Cheryl and her beautiful staff they go above an beyond but most of all she is very professional and extremely caring throughout the whole process.
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From my experience I found them easy to deal with and straight to the point with advice.... which is all you really want in these sort of matters
Anonymous
2 years ago

I would highly recommend Cheryl for your family law needs. She is professional, efficient, committed and friendly to work with. Cheryl will endeavour to achieve the best outcome for you.

M.B Case
6-7 years ago
You'll know Cheryl is there from her genuine care for you. She is there to support you 100%, when you are going through the darkest time. She is not only a capable solicitor, but has a deep understanding in keeping emotional strength, as sometimes the toughest thing is to deal with "fear" itself. Cheryl has a down to earth approach, she will ground you and you will feel assured. She works with morals, and you feel confident when you hear other solicitors make compliments on her work.
Joanne Swadling
1 year ago
I am grateful at how seamless the divorce process was with Cheryl guiding me through it. She's warm and understanding yet draws a very clear line when explaining obligations and potential outcomes to ensure that I knew exactly what was coming ahead. I'm particularly grateful for my initial consultation because I came out of the meeting knowing exactly what my obligations were and what steps I needed to take to navigate the divorce process at the same time my mother was dying. I have since been back to have other family documents drawn up and today, when I dropped in to collect some paperwork, she remembered me from 2 years prior and asked me how I was doing and was pleased to see me looking so well. She remembered very specific details about our interaction and what I had been through. Cheryl actually cares about her clients.
Julie Julie
1 year ago
Cheryl and her team are highly organised, informative and professional. They deliver on their word and always ensure that you are clear on next steps. Copper Tree helped me achieve the best outcome for my children and I would highly recommend their services to anyone needing help!!

Ely M

1 year ago

Very good I recommend to my friends and family all the time.

Anonymous
Cheryl is one of the most prepared solicitors I have worked with, her approach is thorough and she genuinely cares about each case she takes on. She always provides balanced advice that takes on board both sides of the situation to make sure every decision is the best one you can make. When my family was faced with the chaos of separation, and I had to try and understand the legal processes involved with property, parenting arrangements, and every other detail, Cheryl was there to break down each step and give me confidence in knowing that I was being taken care of. She took the time to listen to my feelings and concerns, was patient and yet highly professional at all times. Cheryl has taken the stress out of the legal process for me so that I can focus on rebuilding my life and my future with my children.
Chloe Wallace
3 years ago

Very happy with the advice Cheryl gave and provided peace of mind.

Sarah Gibbons
3 years ago
Cheryl is dedicated and will go above and beyond. She has expertise that makes you feel confident. She is organised and thorough. I would recommend copper tree family law to to anyone who feels that they need someone to advocate for them. I was always heard and Cheryl always did everything within her power to ensure a good outcome. She never gave up and was always available when I needed to ask questions. Cheryl and her team were professional and so invested and all genuinely cared about the situation and did more than expected. She was always comforting and reassuring but always said what the outcome could be and was always realistic. The team were helpful and explained everything that was going on, helping me through it step by step. I do not think that we would have gotten the outcome that we did without Copper Tree family law. Having Cheryl advocate for me made all the difference and I am thankful that I found her firm as the outcome has been life changing and I believe without her assistance I would be in a very different position today. I am very grateful for all that her and her team have done and would highly recommend her.
Shane MacDonald
4 years ago
To say that I am forever grateful for what Cheryl and the team at Coppertree have done for my son and I would be an absolute understatement. I had started my case with other firms and unfortunately I didn’t receive the service I was after. I was then prompted to head over and see Cheryl about my case to see what she could do for me. From our initial chat together I knew things were about to change, everything turned and started to head into the direction I needed it to. Cheryl was always very open and honest with me and always so willing listen to what I had to say, which was a fair bit at times haha. Cheryl was always honest about what I could possibly achieve and she went above and beyond each and every time to facilitate this for me. I went from a period of time where I had no time at all with my son due to some pretty interesting situations, through to a point where my final orders have been stamped with something I honestly only ever dreamt of. Cheryl made this possible through her professionalism, dedication and her sheer will to do everything she could for my son and I.Throughout the entire process Cheryl was always available for a chat and she was always incredibly supportive which is something I am forever grateful for. To know Cheryl was there so I could even to let go of whatever was on my mind was just very comforting and it definitely got me through the process much easier.Natasha was also a pivotal part of the process and always so willing to help in every way possible. I was Always met with a smile or a cheerful phone call and she absolutely has huge sense of professionalism that keeps it’s all ticking along in the background that’s for sure.As a father in the system, I would absolutely recommend Cheryl and Natasha at Coppertree to facilitate anything you require. Be honest with yourself and your children and they will work their fingers to the bone to achieve the best possible outcome for you.Cheryl and Natasha, I can’t thank you both enough for everything. Myself and Noah will be in debt to you both for the life you have given us as we move forward with it all. You have given us plenty of smiles together already and no doubt they will only grow as we move along with life. Thank you.Shane and Noah
Natalie Bevan
3 years ago
I would like to say a HUGE thank-you to all the hard work and everything you put into this for us. It is such a massive weight off my shoulders and you did an amazing job throughout the whole thing. You have changed our life for the better and I cannot thank-you enough! Its a credit to your hard work and dedication (all hours of the day/night). I can actually focus on rebuilding my life and future life with my child and I will never forget what you have done for us. I highly recommend Cheryl and her beautiful staff they go above an beyond but most of all she is very professional and extremely caring throughout the whole process.
Janice ha
5 years ago

From my experience I found them easy to deal with and straight to the point with advice…. which is all you really want in these sort of matters

Frequently Asked Questions

Is "child custody" still a legal term in Australia?

No. “Custody” and “access” were replaced years ago. The law now speaks about who a child lives with, who they spend time with, who they communicate with, and who holds parental responsibility for major long-term decisions.

All the duties, powers and authority parents have in relation to their child, particularly decisions about major long-term issues such as schooling, serious medical treatment, religion and significant changes to living arrangements. It is separate from the question of how much time a child spends with each parent.

No. There has never been a requirement for children to spend equal time with each parent. Since 6 May 2024 the presumption of equal shared parental responsibility has also been removed, and arrangements are decided on the child’s best interests in the circumstances of each family.

A parenting plan is not enforceable by a court. It records what you and the other parent agreed, and a court will consider the most recent parenting plan if a dispute later arises. For an enforceable arrangement, you need consent orders.

A parenting plan is not enforceable by a court. It records what you and the other parent agreed, and a court will consider the most recent parenting plan if a dispute later arises. For an enforceable arrangement, you need consent orders.

Is "child custody" still a legal term in Australia?

No. “Custody” and “access” were replaced years ago. The law now speaks about who a child lives with, who they spend time with, who they communicate with, and who holds parental responsibility for major long-term decisions.

All the duties, powers and authority parents have in relation to their child, particularly decisions about major long-term issues such as schooling, serious medical treatment, religion and significant changes to living arrangements. It is separate from the question of how much time a child spends with each parent.

No. There has never been a requirement for children to spend equal time with each parent. Since 6 May 2024 the presumption of equal shared parental responsibility has also been removed, and arrangements are decided on the child’s best interests in the circumstances of each family.

A parenting plan is not enforceable by a court. It records what you and the other parent agreed, and a court will consider the most recent parenting plan if a dispute later arises. For an enforceable arrangement, you need consent orders.

You and the other parent set out the agreed arrangements, and we prepare and file an Application for Consent Orders with the Federal Circuit and Family Court. The court assesses whether the orders are in the child’s best interests. In most cases neither parent needs to attend court.

Generally yes. You usually need a section 60I certificate from an accredited family dispute resolution practitioner before filing a parenting application, unless an exception applies, such as family violence, child abuse risk or genuine urgency.

By applying to the Federal Circuit and Family Court for a parenting order giving you sole decision-making responsibility for major long-term issues. You will need evidence that joint decision-making is unworkable or unsafe for the child, not simply that communication is difficult.

A step-parent does not gain parental responsibility automatically. A step-parent concerned with a child’s care, welfare and development can apply for parenting orders, and the court can consider the benefit to the child of continuing that relationship where it is safe.

A relocation that significantly affects the child’s relationship with the other parent is a major long-term issue. You should have the other parent’s written agreement or a court order before moving. Relocating unilaterally can result in a recovery order and can damage your position in later proceedings.